20 signs that a woman is cheating on me and what you should do Donesia.com

It is necessary to have proof of love after infidelity, but it is up to you to decide which one. A new joint project? Changing jobs if her lover is a colleague?

I am aware that it can be completely paradoxical and silent to some, but when it is not a question of chronic infidelity, of a situation of manipulation, you can find people who are unfaithful, but who still have feelings.

Does a cheated woman start over?

You would like to have a crystal ball to imagine your life in 5/10/20 years and know if love is still there, if it has started again or not, but unfortunately that is not possible!

However, if you decide to forgive, do so for the right reasons, not out of emotional dependence, and talk about the reasons for this problem. Whether it’s with a couple’s therapist, a coach or just between you and your wife, it proves to you that her changes, that the couple is moving forward again, she will have no reason to be unfaithful.

This is one, if not the most difficult situation in love life. In addition to possible infidelity, you are primarily hurt by the fact of ignorance, doubt. This is the question you need answered in order to move forward and know what to do with your relationship. It is not enough to say “my wife is cheating on me” to be sure. A clear answer requires several pieces of evidence.

After infidelity, it is important to manage your emotions well so that you know how to react. Learning this secret is not an end in itself. Most people will tell you to let it go, to give up, but that may not be what you want. How to deal with adultery in a couple? How to recognize a deceived woman? Can you trust a cheating woman again?

I’ll explain what to look for in your partner’s behavior to get the answer. It is also necessary to understand why she may behave in this way so that this situation does not happen again and so that you can find lasting fulfillment alone or as a couple!

Discover 20 signs that should warn you if you ever notice them!

My wife is cheating on me but she doesn’t want to admit it: are social networks useful?

Obviously, one of the most direct ways to find out if your partner has secrets is to pay attention to their social media. Be sure to hack them or search his phone, but simply looking at his friends list, people liking his photos can be enough to spot someone suspicious.

He takes care of himself more, but doesn’t spend more time with you

You find your wife more and more flirtatious, but your dates are rare and when you do get together, she doesn’t try as hard as usual. This habit can be a sign of an extramarital affair.

Is your wife cheating on you if she is not as available as before?

Of course, one of the ways to find out if you have a cheating partner is to open your eyes to her schedule. Less availability for a couple of weeks with no explanation necessary. You have to ask questions.

Find out if your wife slept with another man: She has secrets!

A discussion on the phone that she doesn’t want to talk about, one of her friends has a problem that she can’t share with you, she doesn’t want to tell you what she’s doing when you’re curious. Each of these situations can be a sign of infidelity, so watch out!

He has the wrong name!

It is difficult to make a hierarchy in the signs that are the most difficult to accept, but this one is certainly one of the most difficult. Whether it’s an intimate moment or a more casual situation, you’ll hear him use the name of a man you might already suspect!

You don’t know who he hangs out with.

You have names, a few anecdotes, but his social circle remains a group of strangers to you. The longer the relationship lasts and the longer this situation lasts, the more questions you have to ask yourself about his sincerity as a couple.

Less sex is one of the signs of a woman who cheats on her husband!

What could have alerted you was a drastic drop in your reports in a few weeks/months. Indeed, if his heart and mind are set on another man, your relationship will surely suffer.

She is being excluded from your social group.

A woman who cheats on her husband or her boyfriend will, in many cases, tend to separate herself from her relatives and mutual friends. She wants to distance herself from those who can remind her of her “official” relationship. He also wants more free time to be with someone else.

Receives suspicious messages.

Whether it is the time of receipt or the name of the sender, a sign of an extramarital union can be found in the messages received by his companion. Indeed, when in doubt, watch out!

She has her phone on her the whole time

Always connected to the phone and its use, wherever she goes she has her phone in her hand. Turn it around when it’s on the table, bring it closer to her to read/text so she hides the screen from you. Whether you are taking a shower or going to the toilet, your mobile phone is always within reach.

Your wife keeps asking you about your program!

We could see this as jealousy, but when she acts like this to get better organized, you have to ask yourself questions. She may also call you during the day to make sure you will come home late or that you are busy, when she was not in the habit of doing that.

She takes time to think, but does nothing.

The need for a break, the sudden hesitation about her intention to continue the relationship, the doubts about her feelings and the need to take a step back to find out what she wants. It’s perfectly legitimate. However, when it takes no effort to get her most important answers, but she is often absent, then you may have questions.

Unavailable for a few hours

If the battery on her phone often fails, if she connects to networks, but does not see your messages or many other excuses in the same style, you need to be careful. Indeed, just as you would look suspicious if you deliberately did not answer for several hours (especially if it becomes a habit), you should be careful.

His/her boyfriends/girlfriends don’t suit you!

A woman who cheats on her partner may have “accomplices”, at least women or men who know what she is doing, but they don’t dare or don’t want to tell you. When you ask questions you have very little information.

She is wrong in her explanations

She was supposed to go see one of her friends, but a few weeks later she explains that it was a business meeting that took longer than expected. Be careful if it is something that is repeated many times.

Last minute schedule change

Immediately after receiving the message, she suddenly has to break free or do something she is not in the habit of doing. This can be one of the signs that a woman is cheating.

She stands out from the crowd!

She is cold for no reason, no longer projecting herself into the future of the relationship at all. His heart can be taken by another man which prevents him from building with you.

It will blow hot and cold.

It is possible that a woman cheats on you when she expects a change, wants something new, distances herself and comes back. She’s playing a little game with you so she doesn’t lose everything while she’s seeing someone else.

He gives you less attention.

In many cases, a woman cheats on a man with someone she has feelings for, a desire to move on. She no longer feels the desire to go to you and it shows in the evidence of attention given.

He often mentions a person!

Adultery or the beginning of it can be noticed when he often mentions the same person. A colleague who often comes up in discussions, a neighbor or a friend whose name you don’t hesitate to say often, even when it doesn’t necessarily have anything to do with your discussion.

Why is your wife cheating on you?

There are 2 main reasons for cheating / well, obviously each story has specifics, but very often the pattern is the same.

My wife cheats on me because she sees a couple differently.

There are people for whom the term chronic infidelity should be used. No matter what you do or say, she will cheat on you! I’m aware that it’s hard to accept that and project yourself when you’re in a relationship like this, but you have to be aware of that.

Too often in coaching I talk to men who tell me “my wife cheats on me while I’m at work”, “she cheats on me, but she doesn’t want to admit it”. Paradoxically, during our conversations I don’t focus on their wives but on them and try to understand why they stay when they have no doubts.

When deception becomes a habit, when it is mixed with manipulation, you have to act more selfishly. A cheating woman will always cheat if she doesn’t care about your well-being.

She has a lover because I neglected him!

Female infidelity is not always chronic. Indeed, your wife or girlfriend may also go elsewhere because there is a real problem in your love relationship and for a long time. Whether it’s physical or emotional neglect, the flame doesn’t stick to your side, or so he thinks.

When this situation lasts, it is difficult to remain insensitive to the approach of a man on the net, a work colleague who knows how to find the right words, the right gestures. Obviously, I’m not discounting his gesture. However, you need to know how to explain it in order to find solutions and make changes.

She will look elsewhere for what she can’t find in a couple, despite the various messages she may have left you.

My wife is cheating on me: Stay or leave her?

It is a decision that carries serious consequences and should not be made under the influence of emotions.

How many couples stay together after infidelity?

A legitimate question, but not a right one. For two reasons.

1/ Every story is different and you need to consider the causes of this situation to make such an important decision for the rest of your life as a couple. If your neighbor decided to leave after his wife cheated on him, that doesn’t mean you have to follow suit.

2/ You think you are the only one who wants to forgive. Because if you ask yourself this question, it’s because you have this doubt in your mind and maybe the fear of coming off as weak. You rely too much on outside opinions. Know that there are more couples who stay together after adultery than you think!

Is it possible to love and cheat?

Yes, trust might be broken, but when cheating is the result of failure in the couple, and she is willing to change, it is possible to start over, but only if you believe in it!

Your personal advisor,

Alex Cormont