How do you get around your wife’s famous line “Not tonight, dear, I have a headache”? What are the tricks to restart the libido in your couple without even asking and enjoy like never before? How do you make a woman want to make love even when your life as a couple is not ideal on a daily basis?
There is nothing more damaging to a man than being “stopped” when he subtly tries to approach his wife for a big hug. So when the excuse seems really far-fetched like the famous “Not tonight dear, I have a migraine”, the risk is even to lose confidence because you don’t feel attractive enough, but also to see the flame of the couple dying out little by little because we fall in platonic love.
If you’ve ever had to deal with this attitude and are wondering what tips can help you revive desire and libido in your relationship, know that I’ve studied the issue in detail. In this article, I will give you my love coach analyzes to help you save your relationship and improve your everyday life.
Sex as a couple starter
It’s a bit strong as a sentence and I understand it. But now sex is everywhere, on TV, in magazines, on posters in the subway… No one is offended anymore in front of an advertisement for underwear, in front of a woman undressed to sell this or that fashion accessory, or a man in a fashionable unbuttoned shirt Alpha Male and bulging abs to promote, for example, a brand of glasses. So when you’re inundated with sexy images, but the dead calm is at the level of somersaults under the covers, I’ll let you imagine the frustration that ensues.
the sex is one of the main drivers of a relationship with communication and complicity as well as sharing. When your couple is doing poorly, the first step is to restart the first two to rekindle the flame and fulfill your partner. If your wife is on a sex strike, now is the time to go all in, but not just any way.
In the next steps, you will see that it is necessary to target your partner’s needs by showing empathy, don’t forget to surpass yourself and personally because most of the changes focus on you, either on an emotional or physical level.
Also, feel free to share any questions you have as well as your story in the comments, I will take the time to answer each one of you.
Why should the phrase “Not tonight honey, I’ve got a migraine” alert you?
As I explained before, sex is one of the barometers for evaluating a relationship. So when your wife uses an excuse to tell you thatshe doesn’t want to make loveyou can consider this a strong sign.
First, because your wife is using an excuse instead of simply telling you that she’s not in the right mood to let go.
Then because it is an excuse that often hides a feeling of discomfort.
So, gentlemen, you should be warned, especially if this happens again and again. Ultimately, if it’s the first time or happens on rare occasions, there’s nothing to worry about. But if it repeats, so does yours intimate relationships they are as rare as snow in the sun, don’t wait until your back is against the wall before you react, it will be too late to save your relationship.
On the contrary, you must understand this warning as a need for deep change and implement it immediately. Don’t tell yourself it’s a fad or that she’ll eventually give in because you’ll be running until you lose. Rather, it would only be a return to a better jump. If the problem is deep, nothing will really change.
After this little warning, I will still help you regain control of the situation as your wife would want rediscover the desire to make love.
The first is to think about the most efficient way to give pleasure to his wife. If you want to take advantage of a precise guide, I encourage you to read this special file I made: How to Make a Woman Come: 8 Surprising Secrets to Master!
if you hear ” not tonight dear, my head hurts“, then you can do everything in your power, but you will find it difficult to make love with your wife. In order to avoid this problem, it is advisable to act daily and upstream so that your partner wants to find sexual desires and completely surrender under the covers.
As with all couple issues, I urge you to take action by starting to change your personal habits. Don’t do anything about it until you regain the joy of everyday life, take care of your physique, your appearance, and set personal challenges to push your comfort zone. If you tend to arrive too soon, check this out special file on premature ejaculation.
The more you try to become a better partner and a more confident man, the more you will be able to turn your woman on for sex. This means that we will also have to take into account his expectations and his satisfaction, therefore become a fantastic lover, I recommend this read.
The second axis and pillar of the couple also consists of restarting communication to share your philosophy, your desire to be happy, to overcome the routine, to let go and to crush this life to the fullest.
The more you bet on the positive, the more a woman will want to follow you by letting you go. Thus, they will put their frustrations aside and focus on pleasant emotions. Then it will be up to you to play and give him pleasant feelings with your massages, caresses and other things.
You need to create an atmosphere suitable for sex
In order for your companion to rediscover her desires, you must avoid showing her that you want her to “go to the pan”! The notion of sexual compatibility is very important, as is controlling your urges and sexual appetite.
Physical closeness and loving attention will allow you to avoid being too heavy and imposing on her, while your wife absolutely needs tendernessenhancement, intimacy and release novelty.
If you only hear” Not tonight honey, I’ve got a migraine“, without trying to react and change your habits, then you will logically enter into a serious crisis as a couple because we know that sex is a key element. To improve things, you must remember to start by asking yourself how to make a good foreplay ? If you are gifted in this area, your wife will not be able to resist you if you need to improve, I advise you to read this practical guide to know how to do it: how to get a woman to climb the curtain by mastering the art of cunnilingus ! Or this book to know how to control your ejaculation.
Working daily with men and women who want to save their relationship, I realized that small, seemingly simple actions can play a big role in saving your relationship.
Therefore, I recommend that as soon as you return from work, you create an atmosphere suitable for sexual intercourse by starting by hugging your wife, whispering sweet words to her and raising the sexual tension. You can continue to communicate only about the positive things of your day, taking an interest in it and promoting complicity.
The more you can show the joy of life and the desire to change all the negative aspects of your relationship, the more your woman will want to make love. It’s kind of a give and take, and you have to put him in the best possible position make her have sex by giving her sexual pleasure.
So, gentlemen, now you know that you can no longer ignore the details of daily life in order to worry about your wife’s libido and to avoid her saying “Not tonight honey, I have a headache” on your pillow.
Now accept all the essential rules to overcome the routine and rekindle the flame in your couple and you will find second sexual youth.
I wish you all the best and don’t hesitate to share in the comments any tips you have for improving your intimate relationships on a daily basis.
Sincerely,
Alexandre Cormont,
Your love coach to (again) become a big hit in bed with his wife!
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